It was hard for me to take my eyes off the raven-haired beauty who sat engrossed
in her accounting books at the other side of the glass partition that divided
our offices. She had short black hair, a thin elegant nose, and large brown
eyes. Her delicate olive-skin face had a hint of Latin about it. We had met in
the far-from romantic surroundings of a company that manufactured cycle dynamos
in Aston, Birmingham.
It was housed in a crumbling building in Aston Brook Street. I had just returned
to Birmingham after a year in Toronto, Canada, and had returned because my
father, the Rev. Alfred Wooding, pastor of the Sparkbrook Mission, Alfred
Street, Sparkbrook, had become very sick with cancer.
Jobs, in the early sixties, were hard to come by in this city. I had been to a
labor exchange to discover what jobs there were, but I didn't exactly get off to
a good start. I had held out my hand to the officer there and he had studied it
as if it were some dubious foreign object. "What would you really like to do?"
he finally asked, trying to sound chatty. "I'd like to be a journalist," I said
brightly, hoping he would immediately phone the Birmingham Evening Mail and
arrange an interview for me. He offered a dry smile and peered through his
rimless glasses at my qualifications which showed I could type and I had learned
shorthand, and that was just about it. "Well, son," he said tonelessly, trying
to stifle a yawn and shuffling the papers in front of him, "I would think the
best I could do for you with these qualifications is get you a job as a clerk in
a factory. It pays ten pounds a week. How does that sound to you?" I looked at
him sharply. He looked back levelly. The "job" he had in mind meant that I would
be earning less than when I left for Canada some twelve months earlier.
It was as if God was telling me that I must now start out on a pilgrimage and,
although some of it would not be pleasant, I had to be obedient, patient, and
learn to walk with Him. Wherever he led me, I must go. I got the position and
the bus journey from Kings Heath, with a change in the city-center, took an
hour. I would use the time to read my Bible. Being brought up in a Christian
family meant I knew the Scriptures quite well, but they had never come alive for
me before.
During a particularly tiresome journey I fluttered the pages of my black
leather-bound Bible and my eyes rested on the story, in Genesis, about the
creation of Eve. I read in Genesis 2:20 - "The man gave names to all cattle, and
to the birds of the air, and to every beast of the field; but for man there was
not found a helper fit for him." I read on: "Therefore a man leaves his father
and his mother and cleaves to his wife, and they become one flesh" (verse 24).
As I closed my Bible, completely oblivious of the people sitting around me
talking or reading a morning paper, I began to pray silently. "Lord, you know
how lonely I've been over the past years; it's been terrible.
Now I realize that I need a 'helper' to be with me so that we can serve you
together." My mother had constantly been trying to interest me in girls who came
to the Mission, but none of them had really taken my attention. Now Norma, the
raven-haired slightly built girl who sat behind the glass, was different.
For nearly two months I tried to speak to her. But somehow the words would just
dry up in my throat. Plucking up courage one day, I went to the antiquated
adding-machine in another office to total-up the day's orders, and found Norma
sitting at another accounting machine inputting data. I tried to make desultory
conversation, but again I froze. My knuckles went white with tension. But
eventually I was able to speak. "Norma." She turned and looked at me. Her skin
was radiant, her eyes bright. "You have the sort of face only a mother could
love." My nerves had caused me to repeat something that a friend had once said
to me at school. I don't know why. There was a moment of shocked silence and
then she responded, "I beg your pardon." I put my hand over my mouth to cover my
embarrassment. Then I did it again. "Norma, that's what I like about you -
NOTHING!" Her eyes met mine, and both of us got the giggles. The tension had
gone and I was still chuckling as I returned to my desk. I reached into my
briefcase and pulled out some writing paper and began forming a letter to her.
She has kept it to this day. It read: Dear Norma, Hi! As I am a bit of a coward
in asking nice girls for dates, I wondered if I could ask you, through this
letter, if you would do me the honour of coming out with me tomorrow night or,
if you can't make it, then one night next week. I have been wanting to ask you
out for a long time but didn't quite know how to do it, so at last I have
decided to ask you and I do hope you will say yes! If you do say yes, can you
let me know where you would like to go (any place you like) and it shall be
arranged. I slipped into her office and, while she was talking to another girl,
left it on her desk. The envelope said, "To Our Norma." I felt a flush spread
across my cheeks as she looked at me shyly through the partition. "Yes," she
mouthed, her eyes glistening. "I'll go out with you. I thought you'd never ask."
We went to see a film the next night and stood in the pouring rain outside the
Odeon Cinema in the city centre. When we got inside, we had to sit apart because
the cinema was packed to capacity. The film was about homosexuals, and
afterwards we both laughed about such a bizarre start to our relationship.
Outside her terraced home 90 Sutton Street, Aston, we were about to kiss
goodnight when a loud voice which turned out to be from her father, Howard
Knight, shouted, "Norma. Come inside right now." She did and I ran to get my bus
back home.
As the late-night drunks staggered on and off the bus at each stop, I knew that
this was the girl I was to marry. I spent most of my spare time with Norma, and
even went back to her home at lunchtime to eat my corned-beef sandwiches and to
talk with her parents, Howard and Maud. However, I found it almost impossible to
share with her my faith. One day, we were walking along hand-in-hand when we
passed a Gospel Hall in Park Lane with the sign prominently displayed, "God so
loved the world that he gave his only begotten son." "I used to go there to
Sunday School," Norma remarked as her voice wavered a little. "I loved it." Then
she looked quizzically at me. "Aren't you religious, Dan? I've seen you reading
your Bible at your desk during the break." Her eyes held mine steadily. "Yes,
well not exactly religious. I'm a Christian. There is a difference!" She
squeezed my hand affectionately and said, 'Tell me about it. How did you become
a Christian?' There was a rapt attention on her face as she turned her eyes on
mine.
Out poured the whole story of my rebellion, my trip to Canada, my intense
loneliness, and my father's illness, from which he had made a remarkable
recovery. "My dad's doing fine, really fine," I assured her. "He's now back
doing a little preaching at the Alfred Street Mission, where he's the pastor."
"But why won't you introduce me to your parents?" "I will -- one day. But I
didn't want to put you off." I had to admit that although I had asked God to
find me this wife I still feared she would ditch me if she thought either me or
my family were "religious nuts".
After taking Norma out for two months, I bought myself a Lambretta scooter. We
would go out together on it, and I would ride on Sunday night from the evening
service to her home. I also used it for work each day. But, as I was to discover
to my cost, scooters in frosty weather can be lethal. One night, returning home
from Aston, I found myself driving through tendrils of freezing mist, as white
and fine as floating lace. Too late I saw a red traffic light and Jammed on the
brakes. As if in slow motion, the whole machine slid away at the back and I
crashed headlong onto the road. Fortunately, there was no other traffic around
and I was wearing a helmet, so my head was protected. But as I hit the ground I
felt a dart of pain in my :left leg. It was lacerated and bleeding. I managed to
.get back on the machine, start it, and gingerly drive it home.
After my mother cleansed my wounds, I asked Dad to do me a favour. "I expect
you've guessed that I have a girlfriend at work. She's lovely. Her name is
Norma. I wonder if you would phone her tomorrow and tell her what's happened.
Explain that I'll be away for a few days." "Of course I will," he said gently.
"Why don't you invite her over?" The next night Norma sat at my bedside clasping
my shaking hand. My parents fussed around her, and my sister and Norma hit it
off straightaway. When we were alone, Norma turned to me and said, "Your family
aren't the slightest bit strange as you led me to believe. I'd like to start
going to the Mission with you." "Done!' We shook hands on the deal and the good
news was that she also made a commitment to follow Christ.

Our wedding took place on July 13, 1963, at Aston Parish Church. We could have
been married in the Mission, but with so many friends and members of the family
wanting to attend, we felt the little hail would not accommodate so many people.
It was a beautiful occasion, without any hitches and we then headed for New
Street Station and sped away on the train to Babbacombe, Devon, for our
honeymoon.
It was the beginning of an extraordinary life together for us. Soon our first
son, Andrew, was born at Selly Oak Hospital and then we became the wardens of
Hill Farm, a drug rehabilitation centre in Alvechurch, Worcestershire. After
period there, we left and our second son was born in our flat at 5 Featherstone
Road, Kings Heath. While Peter was still a baby, our family packed up and moved
to London in the late sixties where I became a reporter with Billy Graham's
newspaper, The Christian.

After that I worked for several years as chief reporter for The Middlesex County
Times in Ealing, West London, and then moved onto the Sunday People and the
Sunday Mirror in Fleet Street.
Then in 1982, we moved again - this time over the Pond to Southern California
where we now run a Christian organization called ASSIST.
Both of our boys have since moved back to the UK and Andrew is married to Alison
and they have three children, two girls and a boy, and Peter has married Sharon,
and they also have three children, all girls.

Despite having no real qualifications, I continued to write - I've just completed
my 41st book - and I run a news service and also broadcast weekly throughout the
world on international affairs on hundreds of radio stations. I also have a
weekly radio show called "Window on the World," which is carried on 300 US
stations and a further 50 around the world, including on UCB Europe which is
based in Stoke-on-Trent.
We now live in Huntington Beach (Surf City), California, which is a far cry from
good old Brum. But we have such fond memories for our days together in Aston,
even if it was at a cycle dynamo factory. For it really "sparked" our love for
each other.